Published: June 17, 2024 | Updated: 17th June 2024
A key skill for managers and leaders is to be able to influence the people around them, whether that be employees, customers, suppliers or other key stakeholders.
What does ‘Influence’ mean?
Fiona Dent, from the Hult Ashridge Business School, describes influencing as ‘essentially an interpersonal and communication skill that largely depends on your ability to interact with others in a way that appeals to them, to gain their attention and commitment’. The old style ‘command and control’ approach to management doesn’t fit well if you note her addition that it is ‘the ability to affect others’ attitudes, beliefs and behaviour without using force or formal authority’.
So influencing is about encouraging people to want to get on board with an idea or approach, rather than manipulating or forcing them to.
Behaviours for influencing
If you want to influence more effectively, assess and develop your skills in the following areas:
* adapted from Goleman, HBR 2000.
Techniques for influencing
Ashridge Hult’s ‘The Influencing Style Preference Inventory’ suggests a Push/Pull approach to influencing.
‘Push’ involves a more directive, persuasive, pace setting style. You can use this if you are a credible expert, need swift action, are working with less experienced people, or there is an emergency situation. This may also be used if there is only really one answer or approach, you know it and can prove it’s the right way to go. Watch outs – if you do this poorly, overuse the approach, or use it at the wrong time, you may be deemed bullish or domineering.
‘Pull’ involves a collaborative, consultative and visionary approach, with more asking rather than telling. This is an ideal approach if you need commitment and ideas from others, or where there is no clear answer. Often it is used at the beginning of a long or complex change programme and in circumstances where innovation is valuable. Watch outs – if you overuse this style or use it ineffectively you may be seen as weak or idealistic.
Top tips
If you are needing to influence, take a moment to stop and think about your approach. Start with the end in mind – what would you like the person to Think, Feel or Do on the back of your conversation or presentation?
Consider your best starting point – to Push your energy and information out, or to Pull the other person’s energy and ideas towards you.
Stay alert to how the person is responding and adjust your style and use of energy and information accordingly.
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